15 Essential Points: How to Minister or Pray for Pregnant Women

This post is about how to minister or pray for pregnant women

Pregnancy can be a very exciting time for some women. It can also be difficult for others, filled with fear, anxiety, and concern.

Pregnancy can be a very sensitive topic for those who have suffered multiple losses or those who discover any diagnoses of themselves or their baby. Everyone’s journey is different and while nobody may fully understand, know that God does. No matter what journey one is on, I come to you to provide insight.

For this post, I want to dedicate it to those prayer warriors and ministers who are praying for women going through a difficult time, be it emotionally, physically, or psychologically. This post is written specifically for people called to minister, and the post is written and tailored to their perspective.

While this post has no judgment and has undertones of compassion, I understand that some may feel that this is a heavy topic. If you feel that, feel free to sit this one out. Either way, I have prayed for you in advance. Know that you are beautiful and loved.

Let’s begin…

Importance of compassion

When ministering to pregnant women, it is essential to remember to be sensitive and compassionate. Pregnancy can be a difficult time for many women, and they may not feel comfortable discussing their concerns with others.

Here are five tips for ministering to pregnant women in a way that will empower them and help them feel heard:

  1. Acknowledge that pregnancy can be a difficult time for many women.
  2. Listen to what the pregnant woman is saying without judgment.
  3. Offer words of encouragement.
  4. Pray for the pregnant woman and her baby.
  5. Follow up with the pregnant woman after your initial conversation.

Postpartum depression

At the time of writing this article, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention stated: 1 in 8 women experiences postpartum depression (PPD) after giving birth. This number is higher for women who have anxiety disorders during pregnancy. Postpartum depression can severely affect an individual’s life and those around them. It is important to know that there is help and support available.

Here are three examples of verses of comfort:

  • “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6-7).
  • “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you” (1 Peter 5:7).
  • “‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart'” (Jeremiah 29:11-13).

These verses remind individuals to take their anxiety and worry to God. He is always ready to listen and will help people through whatever they face.

For more information on bible verses on anxiety, read this post titled: 11 Inspirational Bible Verses About Anxiety and Fear

Here is a sample prayer for those struggling with postpartum depression or anxiety:

Prayer for pregnant mother struggling with depression or anxiety:

Dear God,

Thank you that we can come to you with our burdens and worries. We know that you care for us and that you have a plan for our lives. Please help [insert name] to trust you and to find peace in your presence. We ask for your help in overcoming depression and anxiety. Give them the strength for each day and hope for the future. Thank you that we can call on you anytime, and we praise you for your faithfulness. Amen.

If you or someone you know is struggling with postpartum depression or anxiety, please know that help is available. Please reach out to a trusted friend or family member, or contact a mental health professional for assistance.

P.S. I am a strong believer of professional assistance. I also highlight this in my book Made of Still because I have witnessed the transformative effects of professional counseling.

Suspend your judgment

When ministering to pregnant women, it is essential to suspend your judgment. I know this sounds counterintuitive because, as Christians, sometimes our first instinct is to rush in with the word and impose dos and don’ts. However, this can have adverse effects and may pass harsh judgment on people.

So, what does it mean to suspend your judgment? This means that you should not make assumptions about the woman’s pregnancy or what her circumstances are. Instead, you should approach the situation with empathy and an open mind. By doing this, you will better understand the woman’s situation and how best to help her.

Motivational Interviewing

One way to show empathy is to use motivational interviewing techniques. This involves actively listening to the woman and trying to understand her thought process. It is also essential to avoid giving advice or telling the woman what she should do. Instead, it would help if you focused on helping her make her own decisions about pregnancy, i.e., some women opt for elective c-sections, others can opt for epidurals, etc.

By suspending your judgment and using empathy, you can better minister to pregnant women. By doing this, you will be able to provide them with the support and guidance they need during this difficult time.

When applicable, offer biblical truths and encouragement.

Jesus and motivational interviewing?

Jesus was a great example of using motivational interviewing principles in his ministry.

Why do I say this? Jesus understood that people are ambivalent about change, and he used open-ended questions to help them explore their feelings and make the best decision for themselves. He didn’t try to force people to do things His way – he listened to them and helped them come to their own decisions.

Let’s review one story:

In the book of Luke 7:36-49. Jesus is speaking with a Pharisee named Simon, who tells him the parable of the two debtors. In the parable, one debtor owes 500 silver coins the other only 50. When they are unable to pay their debts, the lender forgives them both. Jesus asks Simon which one will love the lender more, and Simon correctly answers. Jesus then explains that this is how God feels about us – we are all sinners, but he loves us unconditionally and forgives us. This story is a perfect example of Jesus using motivational interviewing to help Simon understand God’s Love. He asks a series of open-ended questions and other motivational interviewing skills.

P.S I’m not saying Jesus used this technique throughout his ministry. There were times when he used other methods and strategies. However, I’m highlighting techniques that could benefit the body of Christ when ministering to this demographic. Ultimately, the word of God is the final authority; as we use these techniques, it shouldn’t go against the word of God.

When I was in Clinical school, I fell in love with the following modalities: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) paired with Motivational Interviewing.

If you are interested in learning more about motivational interviewing from a Christian perspective, please visit The North American Association of Christians in Social Work (NACSW). I believe they do offer professional certifications and training. This is a professional tool that should only be used with the guidance of a professional.

Power of the tongue

The tongue has so much power. It can be used to build someone up or tear them down. When one is pregnant, the tongues effects can be felt even more. One can choose to use the tongue to speak words of healing and encouragement, no matter how difficult things may be.

When we think about the power of words, we can see how important it is to choose them carefully. Zechariah, the father of John the Baptist, was struck mute when he failed to believe God’s promise that he and his wife would have a child in their old age (Luke 1:20). He was unable to speak for nine months-the entire duration of Elizabeth’s pregnancy.

Regarding the power of the tongue, I always love to point out two blog posts I wrote from a biblical and clinical eye. They are super, super detailed. Feel free to read them:

Power of the tongue

How to Replace Negative Thoughts With God’s Truth

Spirit of discernment

Therefore do not be unwise, but understand what the will of the Lord is. Ephesians 5:17 (NKJV)

The spirit of discernment is the ability to see and understand people, situations, and events clearly and accurately. It is a spiritual gift that allows us to know the truth about a situation or a person.

This gift is essential in ministering to pregnant women because they are often in a vulnerable state. They may be dealing with a lot of emotions and may not be able to make decisions clearly. As someone who is ministering to them, it is crucial to be able to see the situation clearly and decipher what they are going through.

The gift of discernment can also help you know how to pray for someone. You can pray specifically for their needs and for God to give them wisdom.

If you are ministering to a pregnant woman, ask the Lord for the gift of discernment. It will be a valuable tool in your ministry.

Ministry of the Holy Spirt!

The ministry of the Holy Spirit is an essential part of the Christian life. We see in Acts that the Holy Spirit is given to believers for the purpose of ministry (Acts 1:8)

The work of the Holy Spirit is often underestimated, but He is vital in our ministry to pregnant mothers. He can provide comfort and healing and give us a word of knowledge. The ministry of the Holy Spirit is an essential part of the Christian life, and we should never underestimate His power or ability to bless those who are ministering to pregnant mothers.

I have spoken about how legalism really affected my Christian walk. I discussed this in-depth in my post titled, “5 Characteristics of Legalism Theology (and its dangers)”. However, what delivered me from legalism was a word of knowledge from a minister walking in his spiritual giftings. The message was about the Love of God! That was a message straight from the Holy Spirit.

So let’s segue to the next point…about Love!


“And now these three remain: faith, hope and Love. But the greatest of these is Love.” – Corinthians 13:13

When ministering to pregnant women, it is so important to do everything in Love. The Love of Jesus Christ should be our motivation for every action we take. When we approach these sensitive situations with Love, it changes everything.

Here are five tips for ministering to pregnant women with Love… (these are similar to the ones I provided earlier in the post)

  1. Pray for them regularly. This is such an important part of interceding for these women. We need to constantly pray for them, asking God to give them strength, wisdom, and courage.
  2. Empathize with them. It is so important to be compassionate and understanding when ministering to these women. We need to be able to put ourselves in their shoes and understand what they are going through.
  3. Encourage them. These women need our encouragement, especially during such a difficult time in their lives. We need to remind them that they are not alone and that God is with them.
  4. Listen to them. It is so important to listen to what these women are saying. We need to hear their hearts and be there for them in whatever they need.
  5. Support them. These women need our support, both emotionally and financially. We need to be there for them, no matter what.

If we can do these things, we can effectively minister to pregnant women from a biblical perspective.

It is so important to remember that everything we do should be done in Love. Only then can we truly make a difference in these women’s lives.

15 Essential Prayer Points Points: How to Minister or Pray for Pregnant Women

prayer for unborn baby and mother

Prayer is a vital part of the Christian life. It is how we communicate with God and should be done regularly.

Here are 15 sample prayer points; pray the ones you are led to pray and the one’s applicable to the situation:

  1. Prayer for physical strength and energy: Pray that the mother would have the strength and energy to get through pregnancy and childbirth, especially if it is a high-risk pregnancy or there are complications. (Isaiah 40:31)
  2. Prayer for emotional strength and stability: Pray that the mother would be emotionally strong and stable throughout pregnancy and childbirth, especially if she is experiencing anxiety or depression. Also, pray for kindness to surround her. (Proverbs 12:25)
  3. Prayer for financial provision: Pray that the mother would have financial provision to cover the costs of pregnancy and childbirth, especially if she is uninsured or underinsured. (Philippians 4:19)
  4. Prayer for the baby’s health and purpose: (Psalm 139:13-16)
  5. Prayer for a safe delivery: Pray that the mother and baby would both be safe during delivery, with no complications or emergency interventions necessary.
  6. Prayer for postpartum care: Pray that the mother would have the support and resources she needs to recover from childbirth, both physically and emotionally. (Isaiah 66:13)
  7. Prayer for bonding with the baby: Pray that the mother would bond well with her baby and that she would be able to transition well to breastfeeding or whatever feeding option she desires.
  8. Prayer for wisdom and discernment: Pray that the mother would have wisdom in raising her child. (Proverbs 3:5-6)
  9. Pray for protection against evil (Ephesians 6:12)
  10. Pray for God’s grace and mercy (Lamentations 3:22-23 & 2 Corinthians 12:9)
  11. Pray for healing from any spiritual, psychological, or emotional concerns (Isaiah 53:5)
  12. Pray for God’s presence (Psalm 139:7-12)
  13. Pray for God’s peace (John 14:27)
  14. Pray for God’s Love (Jeremiah 31:3)
  15. Pray for God’s joy and hope (Romans 15:13)

No matter what you are facing, know that there is God. He hears prayers and will answer them in His perfect timing. Be sure to include these prayer points in your conversations with Him (the Lord).

And that’s it, folks, how to minister or pray for pregnant women

Ministering to pregnant women can be a rewarding experience. By following these tips, you can build trust and mutual respect relationships.

Remember, each woman is unique and will require different levels of support during her pregnancy. Be sensitive to her needs and offer help in whatever way you can. That doesn’t mean you are compromising your faith, beliefs, doctrines, or the word of God.

Empathy, prayer, the word of God, and the ministry of the Holy Spirit are powerful tools that can make a difference in the life of a pregnant woman.

I pray for the Holy Spirit to guide you in all truth!


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